small stories on a tuesday

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The smaller stories of the everyday are in danger of passing unnoticed. I have my mind set on the bigger story of planning, packing, cleaning, and preparing to leave mid-week for this wedding. But watching them hold their pumpkins close to their coat-covered chests and hold out cold hands for Halloween stickers slowed me down in the pumpkin patch long enough to remember how easy it is for me to get my stories mixed up.

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wedding brain

This is the week between two weddings. On Saturday, my photo-taking friend, Alisa, was married. She and I did a wedding together last year. In fact, she has taken photos for countless brides. This time it was her turn. She is beautiful.

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Not that you can tell that from this photo, but trust me: she is.

This coming Saturday I have the distinct privilege of standing next to my college roommate while she promises forever to the man she loves. I haven’t met him yet, as they live far away, but I have no doubt that he is some kind of man with a capital M.

So I’ve got wedding brain. Sitting there in the church on Saturday, I remembered what a mess I can be at weddings. I remember how the bride is like a princess and how the vows are holy and sacred and how much I love to watch the father of the bride because his baby girl is all grown up. And I always cry because I am a crier. Are you a wedding crier? Is that even how you spell it?

the non-haircut

So I got my haircut last week and some of you asked for photos. This is the after picture. I say that because exactly one person noticed it was cut. Not that it’s a bad thing. More, it is simply evidence that cutting three inches off my hair really didn’t make that big of a difference. Wanna know who noticed?

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My brother-in-law. I had to laugh.

the answer and a winner

There sure is no fooling you girls. You were right from the very first guesser: this was my very detailed nursing schedule from when the twins were born. I have every feeding recorded for the first three months because I am insane. I have never felt more out of control in my life than when I brought two babies home from the hospital.

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This schedule represents the only shred of control I thought I had. I would religiously record every time they ate, how long it took them, which side and whether or not I had to supplement with pumped milk. The left column was Dot, the right was Lollipop. So those aren’t their real names, but I’m finding it increasingly difficult to talk about my girls as ‘she’.

I remember the day a nurse came to our house. She asked me a question about how much they were nursing and I pulled out the schedule with shaky hands, dirty hair flying in all directions, eyes wide and crazed with shock and lack of sleep. She took one look at it, one look at me, paused and said very firmly, “Stop writing in this.” I was over the top crazy. At the time, seeing it all there on the paper helped me feel like I was doing something measurable in the midst of the chaos that was life with two newborns. I didn’t stop after that, but I did lighten up a bit.

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Enough about me. The winner of the Lisa Leonard family crest necklace is Anna, commenter number 240!

winnerWell, start imagining it Anna because you did win! Congrats. I emailed you. Or I will shortly. Thanks for coming out of the woodwork for the giveaway. It was fun to hear from some of you! Tomorrow I’ll post a photo of my non-haircut. Stay tuned.

A game of sorts

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Anyone wanna guess what this is? I’ll tell you tomorrow, when I will also announce if you won Lisa Leonard. You won’t actually get her, but you will get the work of her hands. Giveaway is open til Midnight tonight (EST).

a giveaway

I don’t normally do giveaways here. But if I like you and what you make, there is a strong possibility that you won’t be able to stop me from talking about you here.

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Enter Lisa Leonard. First of all, her blog is simply one of the prettiest places on the web. She tells her stories with beautifully antiqued photographs and a few simple words.

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Second of all, she makes lovely jewelry with her bare hands. And I just got my first piece in the mail.

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This is the family crest necklace. It’s pretty, it’s personal. And it could be yours!

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Lisa wants to give one of these to one of you. With your own letter, of course. I think an ‘S’ would look nice, don’t you? Or an ‘A’? How about a nice, symmetrical ‘M’?

This little pretty was such a nice model for me, don’t you think?

To enter, simply click on the comments below. Be sure to include a blog url or an email address (it will not display to anyone except me) in the fields as directed so I can contact you if you win. Fun!

balance on a tuesday

chatting at the skySometimes I have a little trouble balancing things. I’m no good at doing one load of laundry every day. I have good intentions, but I typically end up doing most of it all at once because we’ve run out of underwear. Another thing I do? I wait too long for ‘me’ time, and then when I get it, I hoard it like a starving dog, worried I may never get it again.

Perhaps it’s because for the last six years, it has been mostly about them. Now that I have two days a week where they are all in school, I’m not sure what is allowed. Can I spend the entire four hours on my favorite introverted activities like reading and musing and chatting at the sky? Do I need to be productive and clean the house from the top of the fridge to the baseboards? Shouldn’t I finish that project? Write that book? Learn a new language? Save the world?

I’m still trying to find that happy place between living restfully and being productive. But today I have put all that aside because I have made a hair appointment. Then? I’m going to lunch with a real-life girlfriend. It seems so indulgent, those things. Still, they are the very things I always say are so important, yet very rarely schedule for myself.

Sometimes its the little things, the daily things, the ordinary things that I need to notice and celebrate. Today I am celebrating a different kind of gift: permission to be indulgent.

And one more thing. See that necklace I’m wearing? It’s a Lisa Leonard piece. And it could be yours. Come back tomorrow. Just thought I’d throw that out there.

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