christmas swap

My beautiful friend Cambre hosted a Christmas swap last night. Everyone brought either new or used decorations they no longer want or need as well as some things they got as gifts that would never work for anyone. Ever.

freaky face ornament

It looks as thought the “artist” got a little bit distracted while painting on the eyebrows. Of course, with my luck, this disturbed angel is a pricelessly priceless authentic piece of Christmas heirloomness. I still have her, just in case. She fell out of the box in my car before I went into the party. Lucky girl. Still, I took some other stuff I didn’t need and came home with a bag full of these non-freaky ornaments.

ornaments

And all of this other lovely stuff.

normal stuff

What a fantastic way to get new Christmas stuff without spending a dime. Not to mention the hanging out with friends part. Or the getting rid of stuff you don’t want part. It was just the little inspiration I needed.

swap

Elisabeth poses with her finds.

If you’re interested, my sister wrote a great post on how to host your own swap.

in the zone

rest

We’ve entered the serious zone of rest around here. After two days of eating and laughing and Mom doing the cooking, life has slowed to a crawl and I am reveling in the pace of it. Here’s to one more bite and an extra workout on Monday.

prelude to thankful

orange and blue

There was a day last December when I invited you to join me for to celebrate the small and sacred gifts of the daily. We called it Everyday Unwrapped. I loved that idea so much, I decided to do it here every week.

What began as an experiment of living in the moment has slowly evolved into a habit of seeing on purpose. I’m becoming an intentional noticer and it is leading me into thankfulness for things beyond the obvious. For the mess as well as the masterpeice. For the unexpected as well as the well-laid plans. One thing I am beginning to see about thankfulness is that it is impossible unless I have first received.

To notice the love my husband has for me is polite. To receive it as a gift leads me to thankfulness. And to love in return.

Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.  James 1:17

What gifts are waiting for you that you have not yet received? May they lead you to a heart of thankfulness.

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because the room is done now

I just can’t wait any longer. I have to show you our living room now that the wall is out. After this, I promise to be in thankful Thanksgiving mode for the rest of the week. First, let’s take it back to the original before photos.

original LR before

Here is the front living room when we first considered buying the house. And just behind that wall on the right is the crematorium back living room.

original back LR before

I think dark paneling must have been the law in 1964. And wood burning stoves that get to be ten million degrees. Here is the room now.

LR real

Let’s see that again, shall we?

empty room

The room the night before construction…

LR after

…And the room now. Hallelujah. Praise the Lord. And Amen.

**For anyone who is under the false impression that The Man and I did this ourselves, let me give you a hearty laugh and a firm never-in-a-million-years. They are called Billy and Walon and they work magic.

a thankful heart

thankful

picket fences

fence

If you are a good girl like me, chances are that moving toward others is easy. We will help others, serve others and pray for them, too. But there is a distinct possibility that if they turn it on us, we will move quickly on and deeply inward. We retreat to our comfortable living room behind the wreath-wearing front door of a well-built house with its white picket fence.

I will smile and wave at you from a distance, because who you think I am is infinitely more important than who I really am. Especially when I’m in a funk.

The Bible is filled up and overflowing with people who had to get close in order to be healed: The woman in the crowd. The leper. The blind man.  To be healed, they had to be touched. To be touched, they had to be close.

Good girls tend to think we are the exception.

unwrapping rediscovery

flowers

They don’t know it, but Elisabeth Elliot and Amy Carmichael were my mentors throughout high school and college. Their writings combined with Elisabeth’s daily radio show, Gateway to Joy, served as life-giving anchors for me during times of transition, excitement and brokenness.

Today while flipping through a journal from 12 years ago, I found this poem by Amy Carmichael and my heart swelled with new understanding, seeing it through wife and mama eyes.

O Thou, who art my quietness, my deep repose,

my rest from strife of tongues, my holy hill.

Fair is Thy pavilion where I hold me still.

Back, let them fall from me, my clamorous foes; confusions multiplied.

From crowding things of sense, I flee and in Thee hide.

Until this tyranny be overpast, Thy hand will hold me fast.

Although the tumult of the storm increase, grant to Thy servant strength,

O Lord, and bless with peace.

As a girl of only 20, I read these words and imagined myself on the mission field interpreting the Bible into tribal languages and living in a land of opposition. I imagined tangible, external foes opposing me. And I imagined I would be strong enough to handle them.

Instead I became a sign language interpreter and had three kids in the suburbs. But my clamorous foes come just as readily, though perhaps not so overtly. They show up in the shape of an unlikely enemy: my own self. The way I hold on to expectation, the way I believe half-truths and less-than gospels, the way I forget to remember to be still.

This poem showed up at just the right time. To find rest of heart and a quiet place in the midst of the internal noise is not easy, but it is possible. Do you have small gifts waiting in quiet places? What are your gifts today?

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