she speaks

I have spent the last week cleaning my house like a woman gone mad. Evidently while I have been busy with my nose in my laptop over the past seven months, the toys in this house have been silently staging a takeover. Seriously, where did all this stuff come from? I open a drawer and Barbies and Pollys pop out with their bendy arms and scraggly hair and All. Those. Shoes. Needless to say, there has been a lot of organizing going on, and I couldn’t be more content.

In other news, I have arrived in Charlotte for the She Speaks conference, the sweet place where this whole thing began. I’ve been going over my notes for my session, trying to remember everything I will surely forget. The nerves are waiting giddy just beneath the surface. I’m trying to keep them calm, but every now and then they burst up and turn my stomach. It helps to remind myself that the women attending my session will be lovely and gracious. I know that because the women who attend She Speaks are always lovely and gracious. Here’s to hoping there wasn’t an influx of un-lovely, un-gracious registrants this year.

feast :: a guest post

Danielle Ayers Jones is mama to twin boys with a baby girl on the way and wife to an amazing husband. She has loved to write and illustrate for as long has she can remember, so it’s no surprise that spare time is spent writing articles and photographing. Her writing has been published in various publications including Radiant, Relevant,and she’s a regular contributor for the webzine, Ungrind. To find out more about Danielle, visit her blog,  Dancing by the Light or her photography website, Danielle Jones Photography.

A few weeks ago we gathered around my mom’s table to celebrate a birthday with a family feast. We shared laughs and enjoyed our time together over homemade Shrimp Alfredo and crusty garlicky bread. My twin toddler boys were excited to be at “Nia’s” house and played with old rusty toy tractors and chased chickens. We indulged in ice cream cake.

Feasts bring us together. Conversation and food converge to bring about camaraderie. There is a connection—or oneness—that often can only be sensed when we come together for a meal. I find joy in the variety of aromas and flavors I discover at the table. I leave such gatherings utterly satisfied—well-fed with food and companionship.

Once, when I was trying to lose weight, I drank those powdery diet drinks as a meal replacement. I found the taste boring and I longed for food that actually made me want to eat it. I wanted variety. I wanted to chew on something. There was no looking forward to the next meal when I knew it was going to be another boring drink. Although it “did the job” in terms of giving me the appropriate vitamins I needed to be sustained, it was unsatisfying.

I discovered that I was not made to survive on meal replacement drinks. They are okay for a while, but they would not be healthy long term. I was made to be satisfied by food that looks good, smells good, and tastes good – all my senses working together to bring a contented sigh after the last bite has been scraped off the plate. It’s no surprise that the Bible often describes the God’s Word in terms of food.

“Your words were found, and I ate them, and your words became to me a joy and the delight of my heart, for I am called by your name, O Lord, God of hosts” (Jeremiah 15:16, emphasis mine).

Do I actually approach God’s Word as excitedly as I do a lovely spread at a family gathering? Do I stop to savor its taste or inhale its aroma? Do I truly approach the Bible as a spiritual feast? Or do I treat Bible reading like a meal replacement drink, just there for a quick fix to sustain me, but not to delight in?

Today, I want to discover a feast within the pages of my Bible. To enjoy connection and conversation with the God who made me. To be hungry for the one thing that can only truly satisfy.

As most of you know, I have been accepting guest post submissions this summer to lighten my load so that I could finish my manuscript. Thanks to Danielle and so many others, I turned it in last week. (Insert jig-dancing). I am thrilled to have guest posts scheduled through the month of August, as they will allow me to recover from the book writing and prepare for the first round of edits. I hope you enjoy these guests as much as I have.

petography :: tuesday unwrapped

They called for me from upstairs. Mommy, come up! And bring your camera! They had set up the play room to be a photography studio. For the stuffed animals. They were so very proud.

A few years ago, I probably would have maybe later’d them. I hate admitting that. But these days, because of Tuesdays, it made perfect sense to jump right in, get down on the floor, and shoot away. It didn’t last long. In no time, they had moved on to another make-believe scenario, leaving the pets to be stepped on and tripped over for the next few days. But we had those few minutes together, to laugh at the silliness of it all, to soak in those imaginary moments, to unwrap the loveliness of being six.

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tuesdays unwrapped at cats

i turned it in

It was the evening of July 19, exactly one week ago today. The Man was in Peru on a mission trip, the kids were with my parents for the week, and I was sitting sweaty in my workout clothes when I realized, I’m finished. There is not one more thing I can do with this manuscript in my  hands. I emailed my editor and she heartily welcomed me to send it her way.

And so at 6:01pm, I crafted the email, attached the document, and waited to hear the angels sing. They didn’t. I tried to call my girl, Kendra for encouragement to hit send. No answer. Then, I tried to call my parents for the same thing. Voice mail. And so I said out loud to Jesus, Here we go, Lord. As I quickly hit the send button, all those words and heart and tears and joy slipped quietly, invisibly away across the internets into the inbox of my editor.

I finished two weeks early. What an overwhelming relief.

all things, big and small

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I am always tempted to want what isn’t. When I’m with them, sometimes I long for alone and then when I’m alone, I miss them terribly. That internal conflict was one of the motivations to start Tuesdays Unwrapped – celebrate what is real and true this day, not what will be or what is to come.

There is nearly always a gift in the moment if we take the time to look for it. I say ‘nearly always’ because I’m just not sure I’ve grown to the place where I can always see the gift. But Tuesdays around here sure do help the perspective.

This week we had 96 people link up on Tuesday to share those moment-gifts, both big and small. And even though tears come easily for me anyway, it still surprised me when I felt their sting seeing all those beautiful squares of thankfulness in that post this week – your faces, your families, your stories, and your heart.

If you’ve never joined us on a Tuesday, I’m inviting you to do so this week. It is a lovely community of women (and sometimes a man or two). So keep your eyes open and your hands willing to receive the moment-gifts between now and then, and come back ready to share those gifts, those good things that come from an unchanging Father of lights.

from darkness to light :: a guest post

Emily is a writer and photographer living in Florida with her husband, two kids, and two dogs. (And five chickens!) After quitting her job and selling their home, her family moved to Florida five years ago and bought a fixer-upper. Walks on the beach keep her sane during house projects. To learn more about Emily, visit her at Remodeling This Life.

The house I grew up in had three stories plus a basement. The basement was partially finished with a couch and TV cabinet. It is where my brother and I hung out, watching MTV and playing Nintendo together. The main room of the basement had smaller rooms around the perimeter rooms, closed off by doors that housed tools and work areas for my dad. It was those rooms that scared me. The dark spaces in the peripheral that held the unknown. If I was down there with my brother, it wasn’t as scary. He was a red head. Surely any lurking monsters would eat him first.

The only light to the basement was at the top of the stairs. Because it is what brothers do, sometimes he would go upstairs and leave me down there alone, switching the light off on his way. I’d hear him laughing in the kitchen as I scrambled, terrified, yelling at him as I skipped steps up the stairs to switch the light on as quickly as possible. With the light, everything was alright.

I’m older now and at least pretend well that I no longer believe in monsters lurking behind doors in dark rooms. But sometimes, I find myself in the deep dark basement of despair, feeling like a little girl – insecure and afraid. When I find myself there, I will sometimes forget how easy it is to sprint to the light switch and flick it on. Instead, I will stand frozen in fear and I cling to the lies the darkness tells me.

Then, a gentle and kind reminder in the form of light through the crack at the threshold of the door reminds me there is light on the other side if I only I reach for it. The sliver of light shows me the way. Up the steps, back to The Light where everything is alright.

What a vivid, gentle reminder that we get to choose what we believe. We can stay frozen in fear at the foot of the stairs, or dash right up towards Truth. I had the priveledge of hanging out with Emily in real life at BlissDom last year. She is a gem wrapped up in funny and tied with a beautiful bow. Visit her about page to learn more about her journey.

six things about soul space

This week, I have had more time to myself than usual. In fact, I’ve had the opportunity to enjoy more solitude than perhaps ever in my life. I’ve been breathing in the space while, at the same time, grasping for ways to fill it. Isn’t that what we do? My tagline here is ‘a place for your soul to breathe.’ I’ve been thinking about what that means and what it looks like. Here’s what I’ve come up with:

Soul space is a fancy way of saying: your invisible self needs some elbow room. That could mean prayer, reflection, Scripture reading, or silence. Or it could also happen in the kitchen or at an easel, in the car or the grocery store. The Bible says we live and move and have our being in him. If he exists in me, then where I go, he goes. Worship isn’t confined to a specific posture or location.

Soul space doesn’t just happen. It is possible to be quiet on the outside but still have a cluttered soul. It is also possible to be outwardly active with a soul that exists in a spacious and enlarged place. We have to choose which path our mind, will, and emotions are going to follow.

Resist the urge to try to force soul space to look a certain way. Things may come up that will disturb, and it may be tempting to think this space is impossible. When interruptions and unexpected things show up , purpose to receive them as part of the process, as a reminder of your humanness, and as an opportunity to set your mind on truth.

In the midst of creating space for your soul to breathe, embrace the unveiling of anxiety. Allow those things that hum under the surface of your everyday activity to rise up from within and offer them to the Holy, Heavenly keeper of all your anxieties. In him is the only safe place.

It takes time to receive space for your soul to breathe. We are so used to moving, reacting, responding and producing. To expect that busy freight train to come to a quick halt is to experience frustration. At the same time, God is not limited by our current life stage. Ask him to miraculously multiply the time you do have in ways that only he can.

Our bodies have to breathe to stay alive, and so does our soul. When I move through my days on auto-pilot, I may be able to survive, but that isn’t the same as living. Surviving says just make it through; living says let’s make it count. Allowing space for your soul to breathe is an invitation to commune with God and one another.

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