There are no fancy words to introduce this video to you, except to say that this is me, talking about the book I wrote. It is a terrifying thing to talk to a camera about anything, much less about yourself and your struggle. But that is what I signed up for, and I am grateful for the opportunity. The video is just under 3 minutes. I’ve never been more terrified to hit publish. But here we go anyway.
Grace for the Good Girl releases in September and is now available for pre-order.
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I don’t think I’ve ever been more excited for a book to come out! I just might have to pre-order this. =)
just beautiful! thanks so much for sharing.
This is beautiful!
Sandra Heska King´s last [type] ..Book Review- Lonestar Sanctuary by Colleen Coble
Been reading your blog for a while now. Can’t wait for the book! Through your blog I have come to like what I see of your heart…so I know the book will be a blessing. Not so sure that I am that “Good Girl” but I am pretty sure that I gave birth to a couple of them
Thanks for sharing!
I know so many women have a similar ‘good girl’ past, Dana. But many, many don’t. Still, I think we all might have a bit of a bossy, perfectionistic good girl living inside our heads no matter what kind of story our lives tell. And I definitely gave birth to a couple of them!!
{tears}….just gorgeous words and said so eloquentely. You did a marvelous job!
I. Love. It.
Please, let go of your fear. The video is wonderfully, perfectly you.
“They” say that writers are often terrible speakers, and I am a good example of that. I fumble and bumble over the spoken word. Things never come out of my mouth the way I want them to, which is probably why I love to write. I can say what is on my heart and hit delete and try again until it comes out right. You have a gift for the word – both spoken and written. You speak clearly and confidently and beautifully.
I cannot wait to read the book.
xo
thank you, other emily. I always feel like I’m fumbling and bumbling. Glad it didn’t translate that way. Your words are so encouraging to me. Thanks for taking the time to say them, friend.
That is a description of me, Emily. No big story, no secrets, just debilitating worry about my daily failures, and I don’t share that with anyone but my husband. Being a good girl who desperately needs grace is not something to share because I think that everyone else has much more important problems. Thanks for your story and I’m excited for your book.
Christine´s last [type] ..Keep it well
Proud of you. As usual.
Dad´s last [type] ..Theres this really bad disease
well, that comment just took me straight over my emotional edge. thanks Dad.
Great job speaking about the book, Emily! The video was simple, open and welcoming.
thank you, Lori! What great words!
Oh, this is my story, too. This book is needed by so many, including me! I can’t wait for its release.
The book is beautiful. YOU are beautiful! And you did a wonderful job sharing your heart in the video.
{{hugs}}
crying….
i feel like i just dropped by for a visit, hugged your neck…and interestingly enough,heard your voice, that i have loved to “read” ,have just heard audibly for the first time.
love you & so excited for you….
xoxoxo
paige´s last [type] ..this ones for you – my sweet 16 madison grace
I wish you HAD just stopped by for a visit! thank you…
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
i feel like my heart is beating the same beat as yours…five years behind.
married 5 years, 2 kids (1 on the way), and definitely feeling the pressure and anxiety of being the “good girl”. thanks for trudging into the area that us good girls don’t want to admit…
tiny twig´s last [type] ..Fancy Fun – Kim of Oh- Sweet Joy!-Yellow Songbird
From another “try hard girl” …. that was delightful!
{please come out from under the table now!}
stacey´s last [type] ..What I Wore Wednesday
Oh Emily! The video was great! I can’t wait until the book comes out.
Laryssa@Heaven In The Home´s last [type] ..Love In Action- Uganda
Oh, Emily! This is so beautifully done. Don’t be nervous! This is wonderful. I’m so happy for you.
josey bozzo´s last [type] ..Tuesday ScripTune
SO excited for you, proud of you, excited for US because we get to all pre-order your book – squeeeee!
You are absolutely exquisite on camera… and your spoken word, just like your written word, comforts my heart and brings hope and breath to my soul.
Ok… must go pre-order your book now
Jenny´s last [type] ..Stuck in the Mud Movement
Oh you! Jenny Rain, I love you! Thank you for your sweet words of encouragement this morning.
I can’t wait…. this is wonderful!
thank you, Bevy! so much.
As another recovering good girl, I can’t wait!
Ashley´s last [type] ..Sharing
All of what you say so often, Emily, means so much more when I can hear your voice, see your eyes, and hear the inflection in your words at certain points. The realness of you came through in that video and your heart spoke. Even though my *good girl* story also involved one of those big turns, I also can relate to the every day perfection seeking – wondering if what I am doing is good enough. Blessings to you for your courage to speak AND write.
Amy´s last [type] ..Gracefully deliberatingand then moving forward
Oh, thank you Amy! I know a lot of women who have a story drastically different from mine, but still they understand that inner pull of the try-hard good girl. Thank you for your encouraging words. This is so nerve wracking!! I’m a mess today!
Seek the Father for what He tells you today, Emily.
Amy´s last [type] ..Gracefully deliberatingand then moving forward
I am so excited for this book to come out! Cannot wait to read it!
Living A Bona Fide Life´s last [type] ..Lift Up Your Eyes Worship
You are just as lovely in reality as you are in print! So excited to read your book. I’ll ask for it for my husband’s birthday in September! I hope this doesn’t offend you, but you remind me of Jenna Fischer (from The Office), only with a heart and spirit that has been shaped by God! You encourage me nearly every day. Thanks for being you!
Offend me?! Are you kidding!? I heart Pam Beesley Halpert!
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
So excited for you, Emily! The video turned out great! Thanks for being an inspiration in your writing and your heart.
looks like a wonderful book that i need to read. in fact, i ordered it.
my walk with God has been sitting on the back burner for a while. a number of years ago we had a situation with a group of people who decided we weren’t perfect enough for them and their group, even though we had tried so hard. lately i feel God really drawing me back to Himself. He is reminding me that He never asked me to be perfect, just that I would let Him love me. it’s a good thing.
can’t wait for your book!
Thanks, Randi. And oh, that group. I hope I wasn’t a part of that type of group in the past, but I’m sure I was in some way. Hence, my search and thirst to understand grace and to heap it out by the bucketful. I hope the book reaches your hands at just the right time.
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
Awesome Emily! I am sitting here with tears as I can so relate! Especially that “I’m fine! How are you?” stuff that goes on each Sunday. I just hate that we have to wait until SEPTEMBER!
Bernice
Living the Balanced Life´s last [type] ..Begin again- each and every day
Oh Emily!! I can’t wait to read this!
Heather´s last [type] ..Its Relevant!
WOW, Just WOW! I don’t have any good girl words of encouragement because they have pretty much been taken away with my “wow” after watching this.
You don’t need another “proud of you” friend, but I sure am….
LOVE YOU!!
Jen (Balancing Beauty and Bedlam)´s last [type] ..Frugal Night Out- 2 Movie Tickets for 900 4 for new sign ups
Yes I do! Yes I do need another “proud of you” friend! thank you so much, Jen
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
Oh, Emily!! I can’t think of a single thing that would have made that video more perfect!! It was so real, so gentle, so soothing, and I could relate to what you said ONE HUNDRED PERCENT. Great job!! I’m so excited for the book to come out!!
I can’t wait to read this Emily!
I’m pretty sure you wrote this book just for me! And we don’t even know each other. How sweet of you!
Can’t wait to read your book.I am so glad you posted this video.I have the same thoughts at night, and your “real-ness” and heart-felt words gave me chills.Awesome:)
Well, now….this was almost as good as sitting across from you having a conversation
. You’re a natural behind the camera, you’re a natural in front of it, too 
.
This book is gonna be good, Em….women are going to identify with it on so many levels. So glad you pursued its beginning…and completion.
I’m soooooooooo thrilled for you!
xo
Robin ~ PENSIEVE´s last [type] ..Allowances- Teaching Teens How to Manage Their Money
Thank you so much, friend. Just, so much.
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
I cannot wait to read your book
Corinne´s last [type] ..Virtual Coffee
So fun to see and hear you in motion for the first time! You are a beautiful lady, and I stand with all of your cyber-friends in eager anticipation of what God will do with this work of your heart.
Laura´s last [type] ..monarch 14th St NW
I’ve never met you (and rarely comment even though I read here daily) but the video portrays exactly what I imagined it would be like to meet you in person based on what you’ve shared through your blog. Thank you for being brave today. It was a pleasure “meeting” you, and I look forward to the book!
You made me cry!
I did . not. expect that.
Can I be proud of you , even though I don’t really “know” you.
Can I be proud of myself … becoming less of a good girl because of you?
yes. yes. yes.
I cannot wait to hold this love in my hands and heart.
deb @ talk at the table´s last [type] ..a life of creating
Oh you are so adorable! I can’t wait for your book to come out!
~B.´s last [type] ..The At Home Workout Club- Month 3
I second that! <3
Joy @ B-Joyful´s last [type] ..break through the ignorosphere
This little vid is SO stinkin’ CUTE!
And you sound exactly like I heard you in my head. Yay! for hitting the publish button.
It made me cry.
Because stepping out is easier when you’re not alone – here’s my little moment of fame… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8vTlsNH5IVY
A friend at school produced a series and asked if I’d help. I said yes before I remembered I HATE seeing/hearing myself on video. And it’s on YouTube for all the world to see. >sigh<
Joy @ B-Joyful´s last [type] ..break through the ignorosphere
ahhh! Off to check it out!
Oh my word. You are adorable. And a pro. What’s not to like?!
You are TOO kind!
Every girl needs people to feed her ego – i’ll keep ya! Lol
Joy @ B-Joyful´s last [type] ..break through the ignorosphere
POSTED TO MY FACEBOOK. CAN’T WAIT FOR THE BOOK TO READ AND SHARE WITH ALL THE “GOOD GIRLS” I KNOW.
HUGS FROM MY HEART
This is AWESOME!
I feel like I already know you thru your blog, and I’m so excited for you…
and all of us to get to read your book! Thank you for sharing with us a piece of your heart, stay blessed!
ps…you did absolutely WONDERFUL in the video,
makes me love you even more!
Hearing you speak was just what I expected. Warm. Open. Friendly. Real. That was beautiful. Absolutely beautiful, Emily. The book is on my list.
Southern Gal´s last [type] ..Soul Eyes
I love reading your blog, and now I love hearing you speak !! The video was so simple and to the point but its almost as if your words speak to the soul
…you speak so graciously….I have NO IDEA why you were nervous!! im a BIG FAN and im excited for you!! congratulations!!!
Emily,
What a blessing to see your face and hear your voice. I am even more excited to read your words between two (lovely) covers.
Thank you so much for taking the leap, for the bravery to say aloud what so many of us hide beneath our smiles.
I’m thankful to God for your voice.
Missy K´s last [type] ..Weighing My Words and the Lightness of Silence
are you on facebook? Also, I am LDS (mormon) and this is a common problem among the women in our church. I am looking for ward to your book. Will refer it to our book club.
That is so funny that you say that – I am not mormon, but there is actually a mormon author who is also named Emily Freeman and she has like, a bazillion books out. Have you heard of her?! So glad to have your book club referral
And yes, I’m on facebook. Just go up to the top of the page where it says ‘contact’ and there is a facebook link in a dropdown menu there.
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
You know, I wasn’t going to order your book, as much as I love your writing. I didn’t think I fell under the classification of a “good girl”.
And then you mentioned about the shame and guilt and anxiety at night… that isn’t mentioned at church.
Since I promptly burt into tears, which I don’t normally do, I’ve pre-ordered. It was as if you were able to reach in and touch on that that sore spot that’s been so carefully tucked away out of reach. (it hurt, in case you were wondering
)
And then… the cover. Oh, the cover. I had someone tell me of a vision they had while praying for me. They saw a bird desperately trying to get out of a cage.
Thank you for that open door.
Oh, oh! I am so glad you decided to be brave and hit PUBLISH on this post! I loved seeing your face and hearing your voice…just beautiful!! I loved hearing you talk about the book and your heart behind it. I think we have similar ‘histories’ and I wish we could visit and chat, I think you would be a wonderful friend!!
Candace´s last [type] ..Wednesday Wisdom
Oh Emily, Can I call you that? I feel like we are friends….but you don’t know me:) how perfectly beautiful your video is, and how wonderfully different your book sounds. Looking forward to it, from a fellow good girl.
asnipofgoodness´s last [type] ..Our story part two
hello? Of COURSE you can call me that. I know it it’s probably naive and Pollyanna of me to consider all the people who read Chatting at the Sky my friends but…I do! So yes, I feel the same way!
You brought tears to my eyes!
I think this is my story, too.
September seems like such a long way away!
I know, it does, doesn’t it!? Especially since the book has been finished since July. Publishing moves kind of slowly! Hope it will be worth the wait.
Speaking up here to say that I think the *process* is important…the time of waiting…of trusting that this message will still be relevant MONTHS after you did the work. And it will. Trust Him in the process, Emily.
Amy´s last [type] ..Gracefully deliberatingand then moving forward
Thanks for posting this! I’m definitely going to pre-order the book, it seems to be just what I need
By the way, you’re beautiful.
thank you so much! I wish September wasn’t so far away!
*cheers* Wonderful video. You did a great job.
So glad you published in all the ways you did. Looking forward to the book. 
Emily,
I guess I have been stalking your blog for a year now and have never commented, often because what you said was so personal to me and I had to process it all for a long time. I think through your words for weeks at a time though. I am a good girl and a youth pastor’s wife as well.It is amazing how much pain both of these things can cause. They seem like such wonderful things to be.
I have felt the way you feel for my whole life. I love reading your words, your struggles and encouragements, because they are almost always my own. I just wanted to finally tell you thank you. I loved seeing your face and hearing your voice and I cant wait to hold your book in my hands and hear God speak to me as I read your words.
So this is me, saying thanks one more time and promising not to stalk anymore.
Hi Shaundra! I’m so glad you said hello! We have so very much in common, I could use your words around here
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
I got goosebumps and a bit of knot in my throat just listening to you Emily. I’ve been reading your blog for a little while now, and every time you mention your book, I’ve not been quite clear on what it’s about. Now, I’m bummed it’s not out until September!
If your book is even half as articulate, thought-provoking, and downright sincere as your blog, you will not disappoint a single reader.
Can’t wait to read it!
Tracy´s last [type] ..The Blues
Thanks so much, Tracy! I haven’t been super clear on the blog yet about the content. Glad the video helped to clear it up!
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
Oh my. I cannot wait to get my hands on your book and soak up it’s words. What you wrote on those pages needed to be written.
Hannah Braboy´s last [type] ..I just wanted to let you know
I found my eyes welling up watching this, which surprised me. I’m a good girl, too, but I didn’t realize how deep the shame and guilt had settled into my heart and taken root. Thank you, Emily, for following Jesus and doing his bidding. I will be buying your book-gift when it comes out.
It’s perfect. Love you.
I love you. I love this.
And if I can be half as sweet and calm as you for my own promo interview, I might be able to hit publish on mine too. Can I be you when I grow up?
Kelly Sauer´s last [type] ..A Restless Heart Enter- Spring
Your passion for your book, and even more so for all the “good girls” to whom it can minister, is evident in your face and in your tone as you share your heart in this video. Thank you for putting the art you love out there for all of us to see and benefit from.
Tracey´s last [type] ..A Ma Ingalls Moment
Thank you for being so brave and courageous. You are a lovely speaker, in addition to writer. Well done Emily. You inspire me each day, and you have never met me. God is going to continue to grow your ministry to women and girls. You are a gift to the body of Christ.
~Anne-Marie
Oh, I can’t wait for this book. I really can’t.
We have a small book study group for women at my church. We’re currently reading Ann Voskamp’s One Thousand Gifts, which has been wonderful. I told them last week that I wanted to read your book in the fall, and when I told them the name, there was a collective sigh. Like, oh, I need that.
So excited to see how God is going to use your words! I know he already has.
Kristy´s last [type] ..it starts with one
Oh! You’re going to read my book in the fall?! What a gift to know that! Thank you. It will have a complete leader’s guide in the back to help you facilitate discussion. So fun.
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
I’m so glad you hit publish.
This books looks so wonderful. I look forward to reading it.
(And as a fellow North Carolina girl, I love the little hint of southern I heard in your voice…)
I recently found your blog and have been LOVING it! This video is wonderful . . . I can SO relate to being the “good girl” and have often struggled with releasing those “try harder / do better” tendencies. Cannot wait to read your book!
Emily´s last [type] ..Five Things
…and they love it. So proud of you, girlfriend. This makes me fantastically excited. Celebrate today!
oh yay, Twila. Thank you so very much. Your encouragement means, well, everything. I figured if you didn’t want it up yet, I’d be getting an email from you. Aren’t these women amazing?!
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
This made me cry. That sense of feeling failure all the dang time…yeah, I can relate to that. I think you’ve written the book I’ve been trying to believe and just don’t know how to translate into real-life existence and consistent thought patterns.
You did good, girl {no pun intended.} Articulate and poised and heartfelt. The cover is BEAUTIFUL and so is the writer. I’m so glad you shared this with us.
Scooper´s last [type] ..Decade Girl
Emily,
I have been following your blog for just a short time now but have been so encouraged by the little things we have in common – moms of little-r ones, youth pastor’s wives and just plain girls that are trying to follow Jesus in it all – and I am so excited to read your book now. I have been a good girl for pretty much as far back as I can remember and most days I just need that constant reminder of God’s grace. I’m looking so forward to your book’s release in September!
Megan´s last [type] ..Valentines Eve
Your book sounds beautiful. And your video was well-done.
Nice to meet you!
Could you BE any cuter????
Can’t wait ’til September!
Emily,
I cried as I watched your beautiful video. You expressed (very eloquently) exactly how I feel. I could not say it any better than you. Thank you for sharing your story and making me feel less alone/lonely. I could never quite put my finger on the feeling I had and you did! I always feel like I’ve never done “it” (life) quite good enough. Constant feeling of failure.
I am anxiously awaiting your book. You are a God-send.
Blessings and a really big hug!
Beautiful video~everything about it! I’ve been enjoying your blog for a little
while now and love it! It’s nice to put a voice to the wonderful messages you
share! Treat yourself to a big cupcake or some lovely flowers today~well done!
i love to write….hate to speak.
i come alive when i write…the words just come.
not when i speak….at all..ever. (unless i’m in a small group…that’s my place)
anyway, you can do both beyond well.
celebrating the goodness of all that God has given you!
please don’t think i’m a stalker that reads all of your comments…on my way down to leave my own comment, i saw the word “dad” and stopped to read it….and now i’m all choked up.
what a blessing he is to your life and what a blessing you are to his.
Tara´s last [type] ..No Higher Calling
Tara – I am speaking at a womens retreat in 3 weeks. And I am so nervous about it, as it is my first one ever to speak at. I’m excited, as I’ll be sharing messages from this book for the very first time, but I’ve never done anything like this before. Your words today have encouraged my heart more than you can possibly know. Thank you so very much for saying them today.
I really don’t know what to say, except that you have put into words exactly what I have been feeling, but couldn’t express myself. Honestly, you have hit it right on the mark and I’m feeling a bit raw and exposed, yet encouraged and hopeful.
Thank you, Emily. You’re book has blessed me already.
Meagan´s last [type] ..Love is Eternal
Oops. “Your” book. You are not a book!
Meagan´s last [type] ..Love is Eternal
What a beautiful video… and a beautiful you! I watched with tears in my eyes as if you were speaking directly to me. Looking forward to the release of your book.
So proud of you Emily. Thinking back to a late night in a dark hotel room with us four girls at Blissdom, hearing your heart for this book. I’m all goosebumpy now. Cannot wait to read it and see what it feels like to try and be the good girl
xo & blessings
melissa @ the inspired room´s last [type] ..Repurposing Furniture HGTV Featured!
Emily – I am so glad someone took the time to write this book! To put into words the things that so many women feel. Not only do I wrestle with the core issues you mention in your video, but I’m terrified that I am raising my daughter to head down that same path in HER walk with the Lord because it’s all I know. Always striving. Knowing grace but never really resting in it. I look forward to reading. Thanks for taking the risk to share your heart in the pages of a book…
Oh yes, this. – this “knowing grace but never really resting in it” Yes.
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
it’s just lovely!
ellen´s last [type] ..small joy- new eyes
Thank you for sharing your voice with us today. This was a beautiful video, I can’t wait for the book.
Rachel´s last [type] ..Something Good Happened
Wow. I just started reading your blog last week and you have such a talent, an amazing ability to put your thoughts into words. I thought your video was fantastic. Chills ran up my spine and tears spilled out. I think that means I need to read your book. Thank you for courageously putting this topic out there.
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. Made me cry. In an I can’t wait to read your book kind of way. I thought I was done with try hard, but as evidenced by my tears and my exhaustion today – nope. Gonna try to rest in grace the rest of today.
Hope you never worry about yourself on camera again. You sound just as wonderful on camera as you do in written word. So glad that you are following God into this bigness in your smallness. =)
Shelley.´s last [type] ..some other beginnings end
Really? How encouraging of you. Oh my. The idea of doing the camera thing again makes me want to run! But thank you. Truly.
Ouch. That was a good description of me.
Can’t wait to read your book.
It was good to hear you and put a voice with the face.
Sharon@Hiking Toward Home´s last [type] ..The Relevant Conference 11
Yaay!! Ok, so goosebumps and my eyes water. I am not one whose eyes water much, but I relate so much to this. I am so excited to read it and continue on the journey that God has for me.
Not to mention, you are adorable!
I had waited for someone different to appear-but it was you! The first time I see and hear you and it is like I have always heard that voice-amazing. You are truly genuine-that is the only way this can happen:)
No need to worry about this video-it is just exactly right–I look forward to ‘hearing’ your voice in your book-
*I think I even read you with that little southern accent(:
Vonda´s last [type] ..March
Wow…I would be terrified to publish a video of that as well.
I’m so glad that you did. We talk a lot about that at my church…knowing our need for God…and I help with the youth group and my high school girls have the hardest time with that. They are “good girls” and have a hard time knowing how to be a good girl and know that they need Jesus.
September 2011 will be much anticipated here! It sounds like your book is going to be a great resource.
Meg´s last [type] ..Parks and Recreation
ps…you sound like your sister, the Nester.
Meg´s last [type] ..Parks and Recreation
Emily – your blog has been such a blessing to me!! I don’t know how many times you words have spoken to my heart about what was going through my mind that very day. And you are just as beautiful in person hearing you speak as you seem when I read your blog. Just wanted to thank you for sharing your words and your heart.
I’m so excited! That was beautiful, Emily. I think now I understand better what your book is about, and that I need to read it. Dang girl, you always get me! You did a fantastic job on the video–you look great and comfortable, too.
And I love the cover art! I would be drawn to that book even if I didn’t “know” you! :0)
It’s gonna be AWESOME! and worth all the work. God is using you!
dawn´s last [type] ..A baby shower!
I usually stalk your sister, but occasionally come over here! Thank you for being so vulnerable and putting into words how I feel sometimes. I’m living in Scotland but originally from NC so more than anything it was great to hear your voice! May God richly bless you and your family.
This made me teary Emily. As a preacher’s daughter, I can relate to knowing all the right answers in Sunday School, but not feeling worthy enough for God. Good, but just not good enough. About three years ago you were one of the first christian bloggers I found, I don’t even remember how. You weren’t writing regularly, but there was something about your words that drew me back post after post. So seeing this book come to fruition has been neat to watch. And we still treasure the pictures you took of the children!
amanda´s last [type] ..dreams
Emily,
I resonate with this so much. Thank you for sharing your journey….I look forward to reading the book!
Jane
Glory Hallelujah! I’m so dang excited about the release! Congratulations…you totally rocked the camera interview
Emily´s last [type] ..Ive seen this room and Ive walked this floor
Oh, Emily! I love this! THANK YOU for putting yourself out there! It’s so neat to see the moving, talking you behind this blog.
I am right there with you as a “recovering good girl.” I’ve never rebelled outwardly in my life, but in my heart, I’m seeing where I’ve resisted letting the God who loves me into the deep. I’m excited to let him in…even when it hurts. And I’m beyond thankful that I’m not alone in the journey. Can’t wait to read your book.
Oh, and I have the same shirt! The recovering good girl shirt.
Green was a huge stretch for me. The gray one felt so much safer. LOVE the green on you!
Big, Texas-sized hugs to you,
Linsey
LLH Designs´s last [type] ..Perspective in Parenting
I have the gray one, too
Wow.
I’m so touched by these words: ‘She doesn’t have to manufacture her own safe places – in Christ, her life is hidden and she’s safe there, in that place.’
My eyes are watering and I can’t wait for the book for so many reasons…I just don’t have all the words at the moment.
Thank you, though…for being so transparent. Its truly a gift to those of us who lurk here.
I can soooo relate … & am so looking forward to reading your book.
Thanks for being vulnerable & transparent & writing this book so many women need to read.
Happiness to you today ~ Sarah
You spoke to my soul today. I completely GET what you are saying & I can’t wait for the book.
Christy´s last [type] ..On Being Enough
I can’t wait to read your book, Emily! I have good-girl syndrome too. So I think it will be exactly what my heart needs. I bet September seems forever away, huh?
erin m.´s last [type] ..currently reading
I’m joining with everyone else to tell you how much I love this. I so love it. In the video the real sense of the book and your beautiful heart come through so clearly. Plus, you’re just too cute for anything. So.
Sharone´s last [type] ..thoughts
Yes Emily – my story too. I can’t wait to read what you’ve written.
The video is wonderful!!!
Linda´s last [type] ..Unchanging
In my mid-50′s and you have now identified the ache in my heart. I look forward with joy, to reading your book. – And you did a marvelous job in the video, maybe we’ll meet if you do a book tour!
Just started following you recently and this post brought tears to my eyes as I’m sitting at my desk at work. Your words in this video could literally be my own – I had the same “bringing up” and feel a similar struggle to reach perfection, deep failure, lists of regrets (all culminating a few years back in panic attacks, counseling, etc.). I have learned that Jesus’ grace is more powerful still. Thank you for putting into words (and a book!) what so many women need to hear & understand. So looking forward to reading your book!
I have a similar story – I’m the good girl who really was and is just a good girl. Emily, I am SO excited for this book! And I really like this introductory video – you did wonderfully!
Annie´s last [type] ..5-52
This is such a wonderful testimony! I wasn’t brought up in church as a child but have been going my entire adult life. Sometimes I feel like I have to make up for all those lost years. I can’t wait to read the book! I will read it and pass it to my 16 year old daughter who has been raised in church. Thank you for sharing your blog with us readers. You are truely an inspiration Emily! God Bless….
Sounds fantastic, Emily. I’m a “good girl.” I don’t know if I align with everything you mentioned but I do struggle with this need to “do” things just right. I have to remind myself that works don’t continue to earn my salvation – it’s my faith.
Sounds like a wonderful book, a personal book, and a book that will resonate and impact so many.
Dionna´s last [type] ..Sibling Relationships
There’s something about both the blog and your personality coming through the video that is so refreshing. I always feel like I want to take a deep breath or a quiet sigh as I read your posts. This feels like a safe place to catch my breath from the world. Hopefully that makes sense. Looking forward to hearing more about the book!
Claygirlsings´s last [type] ..Daughter – a name of hope
i’m so flippin excited for this book to come out. i still think back and look back to the good girls weekend stuff i have. and i love that you mentioned in the video that it’s not a ‘do this’ book, but a believing one. so often we just want to do this or that when we just need to believe. thanks so much for your sweet words. i miss seeing you and your family all the time!
Amy´s last [type] ..february
THANK YOU. Thank you for sharing this wonderful post and reflection into what you’ve done and where you continue to go, Emily. I felt connected to exactly what you said on so many levels.
Katie
Katie @ Making This Home´s last [type] ..Learning to Love Cooking Peek in the Pantry
I SO appreciate your vulnerability and willingness to be so open and honest about struggles we all go through, Emily. You words clarify that it’s okay to be normal — to have misgivings about ourselves and that it’s okay, we’re healed through Christ. Time to cease striving! Can’t wait for your book…
jimi ann path of life´s last [type] ..living in gratitude
” That she does not have to manufacture her own safe places but, that in Christ, her life is hidden and she is safe there in that place.”
Immediately and entirely drawn to the promise and truth of this!
Eager for the release…
Emily, what a beautiful video!
Joylynn´s last [type] ..No Spend March – Commencing thoughts
Thank you for your bravery Emily! Just think: your book won’t be out until September, and judging by the comments above, it’s already touched so many lives!
It touched a deep pain in me I didn’t know existed, and brought forth tears and a lot of anticipation! I can’t wait!
Also, the cover image is just perfect!
Emily Joyce´s last [type] ..Got it at Goodwill- Three Thrifty Outfits for Thirty Dollars
Emily, the video is fabulous! It couldn’t better. I’m excited for you and excited to read your book. I find you and your blog very inspiring. I’ve also written a book (not yet published) it’s a historical fiction based highlighting the main character’s spiritual journey. Your blog gives me that extra nudge I need sometimes to keep preservering when the going gets tough. Thanks and Congrats!
Elizabeth at Home´s last [type] ..February in Review
Hi Emily,
Your blog is so refreshing and encouraging. I love reading the words that you write. Thank you for sharing them. I look forward to reading your book. I didn’t grow up in the Church, but accepted Christ in College. But, Jesus had my heart ever since I was little…oh the memories, and stories I could tell. I am though, a perfectionist and often feel weighed down by trying to do too much or be too perfect. I can’t wait to read this!
I love how God speaks through others! Hoping to one day by His Grace bring the Hope of God to others through writing!
Blessings,
Cole
Crying tears of relief that words of understanding have been spoken. Your blog speaks to me every day–I know your book will open doors of freedom and grace. Thanking God for you!
(((Emily))) I want the book…NOW! I teared up watching it as I had JUST over dinner told my husband how ‘all I see is how I’ve failed’ and though I know the truth and can tell it to you and have seen victory, I hunger for a fresh story. A journey vulnerable and truth-filled of another with a gift to share for me (and so, so many)…so, so, so excited to see what our Good God does through His words written and lived through you. your story.
Blessings to you, right now!
Abby´s last [type] ..Our Story God’s Story- Part 9
I love the video, love the book concept, love the book cover, love your blog, and love that God is using you to free good girls everywhere! I can’t wait to read it.
Christine Hoover´s last [type] ..A Win
I’m so glad you were brave enough to write this!! CanNOT wait until it arrives on shelves! Looking forward to reading it.
Thanks, Emily!
Katie Holmes´s last [type] ..Oh no she didnt!!!
Hi Emily,
I’ve read your blog for a while now, but I haven’t commented often. I just wanted to say I’ve been thinking about your book ever since you first mentioned it, and this video brought tears to my eyes. My story is far, far, far from perfect, but I’ve always had a “good girl” inside of me trying to take control. Lately I’ve felt like such a failure as I try to find a balance between rest and try-hard. I don’t admit it often, but I’m scared to death that when I’m not “perfect” in every area of my life, I’m failing God. Thank you for putting this into words, for opening your heart to us on this issue, and for hitting at the heart of something I really need to hear.
Kim´s last [type] ..Heart Shaped Homemade Chocolate Bars
WOW! Just the video spoke straight to my heart. I can’t wait to get this book in my hands & read it!
There’s nothing more downright awe-inspiring and tear-inducing than watching someone step out in courage and go after what God has led them to do. Yay, Emily!
Can’t wait to read it this fall.
Jamie
PS – I didn’t know you live in NC; I grew up in Wilmington.
steadymom´s last [type] ..Tips for Moms 103- Plan for Tomorrow- Not Next Week or Next Year
I loved this- all that needs to be said!
Lacey´s last [type] ..Rollover
I really can’t wait for this book. Your video brought me to tears. Mostly because you remind me of my big sister who lives 13 hours away and she’s great like you. Thanks always for letting go
Hi Emily!
YAY for YOU!!! You did an awesome job with the video, you really spoke to people (me)….i am struggling with finding so many things right now in the middle of my life, including my place with God and Jesus, and your words are such a respite from the struggle !! I go to bed some nights with the same “good girl” thoughts and it’s so draining. I am definitely going to hit that B&N pre-order button! Keep up the great work !! You can do it!!
Thanks for the wonderful words!
Emily, this was so beautiful. I was SO happy to finally hear your voice and see you!
For now, it’ll do.
I loved every minute of it.
And the cover of the book.. Oh, my goodness. Just looking at it made my heart tender and it touched a deep place within me.
I am so excited for the hearts that will be touched and freed to breathe upon reading your book. Mine included. I can’t wait to read it and be filled with His grace.
Love and so proud your a sister across the miles…
Faith Barista Bonnie´s last [type] ..I Stress- Therefore I Am- 10 Ways To De-Stress Soul Rest Series Kick Off!
My name is Becky and I am a good girl. I’ve been reading your blog for a while and have loved it so much. I was nervous FOR you after reading your intro and I then clicked ‘play.’ I wasn’t really surprised to find a composed, sincere and well-spoken woman who I feel like I’ve already met! Thank you… and I can’t wait until your book is out.
BeckyB´s last [type] ..Halla Loo Yer
Oh I am so excited! I got to hear your voice! And it’s lovely, and so confident and reflective of Him! I am so proud of you, like I would be proud of my own daughter and I don’t even know you! I can’t wait to order the book. Congratulations. How blessed you are to be able to help others.
I can’t wait to read this book! Your life sounds so similar to mine. I’ve always been a ‘good girl’, doing everything right, but haunted deep down by failure. I don’t know if I can wait til September!
I literally have tears coming down my face, and I am not the type to cry when I read blogs or listen to vlogs or whatever.
But I get it.
I am “A Good Girl”
And in the last year and a half, I have been disappointed with my life, with myself……and fighting it.
The mantra that the Father continuously speaks over me is Grace, Grace, Grace!
Wow!! This IS SUCH a NEEDED book….because you are right….people DON’T talk about grace for THIS.
Thank you!
Lindsey van Niekerk´s last [type] ..Wordless Wednesday- Beauty in Ruin
Oh Emily, I cannot wait to read it!
Jen
emily……………………i can’t wait for your book ……… you’re precious……..inside & out.
i, too, live in charlotte……..followed your blog for awhile now and marvel at your god-given talent……i am not sure that i am exactly a “good girl” but i so look forward to reading your book. what i do know is that i gave birth to a good girl……also an emily and as beautiful and lovely on the inside as well as on the outside……..she was born an old soul and taught me more in her 17 years here on this earth than i ever thought i would need to know. she was a “good girl”…..she loved many, pushed herself to excel in school…..was an honor’s student, a cheerleader and a child of god. i lost my precious girl two years ago at the age of 17 after a very short five month battle with leukemia. i still can’t believe she is gone………but the legacy she has left in her path has made believers out of non-believers and i am completely convinced that she did everything she was supposed to do in her lifetime. to say i miss her beyond belief is a gross understatement – but what a treasure i was given the day she came into my life……..
just something about those “emily’s”…………..
October, November, December…….hurry Spring, come soon, too much darkness and coldness. Can humans hibernate?
January, February,………. Spring is very, very slowly trying to come out to play. I’m still drowsy but hopeful.
March, April……was that really a sassy daffodil I saw poking its head through the earth today?
May, June, July, August……please stick around longer. I need your light, strength and warmth. See you at the POOL!
SEPTEMBER…..Oh, wait….Praise you Jesus. It’s here! Your promised Light arriving that I can carry around all year.
Grace for the Good Girl. Thank you for creating Emily P. Freeman to let Your light shine.
“This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine….”
PS Delighted with you Emily!
This is probably the most inspiring thing I’ve heard in a LONG time. This confirms to me on so many levels that I am making the right decision to come to the Relevant Conference in Oct. I am so excited to hear you!!!
La Donna´s last [type] ..Letters to My Daughter
Beautiful. Inspiring. Needed for so many.
There are a special few that I mentor who need this message today. Would you say this would be a good read for a mature tween or teen girl?
Lisa´s last [type] ..Welcome to the Legacy
AHHH! I’m dying! Internet been out for a few days while I’m at my parents. Sleeping in same room as my 16 month old. Finally have internet and she is sleeping right beside me in a crib. So, tell me, do you speak soft enough that it won’t wake her? (wink wink). I can’t wait to watch…..but, I guess I’ll have to wait til morning. I’m sure you’re wonderful, so please don’t fret. Ok, off to search the closet for some head phones.
xo
Cat Moore´s last [type] ..Guess What!
Emily,
I know you must hear this a lot….but wow…you were speaking right to me! Your words seem to have a way of doing that. I am just sooooooo excited to get the book….I can’t wait till September. It sounds like something I could use right now…but then again, I am sure I will definitely need it then too. It will be my b-day gift for myself.
Yay!! Even MORE excited (didn’t think that was possible). Can’t wait to read it! Cheering wildly for you and your words…
Holley´s last [type] ..Run your race
Thanks, that was what I needed to hear. Now to read the book. Cheers!
Fantastic job Emily on the video. I too have followed your blog and love your heart, your way with words, and your honesty.
I’ve known you from a distance through your sister-in-law, SF, and just living in the GSO. Can’t wait to read your book. Keep writing and allowing God to use you to speak truth into our hearts.
Great job, Emily. You didn’t say “um” once!
I was totally enjoying the video and your adorable style, when some words jumped right into my heart . . . the bit about not having to make my own safe place. Wow.
Fondly,
Glenda
Glenda Childers´s last [type] ..Blogging Your Way e-course
Emily,
I’m a good girl who also lives in NC! How about that!
Your video was great and I hope to read your book.
I would love to learn more about how you began writing more publicly.
Your are a blessing!
Oh, Emily. This is so exciting.
Your video is just. right. Now I’m more than ever looking forward to the book. I envision a lot of good girls–saved girls!–being swept by your words into becoming safe girls. Won’t it be wonderful for so many of us to be able to rejoice together?! We need to have a party!
Richella at Imparting Grace´s last [type] ..Dinner for Real- Crustless Quiche
sweet sweet friend. i am so proud of you i don’t know what to do. i’m sitting here, tears streaming down my face because of how proud i am. you are beautiful, and i’m so grateful that this is your story. it’s such a needed story to tell. and btw, heck yes, you are in barnes and noble.
You did not just share that beautiful, relateable video and then end it telling me I have to wait SIX MONTH to read the book!!!! Oh my word!! I can’t wait!!!! I am so blessed by your heart and obedience to God. Thank you!
No need for fear, Emily. The video was very well-done! Our stories have some differences but I still related to so much of what you said. I will definitely be picking up a copy of your book!
HopefulLeigh´s last [type] ..8- Did Dessert Die
not sure why this video brought me to tears….and left me crying with the Lord for a while later….but I’m sure it has something to do with what the Lord is putting His finger on in my life…and that the Lord has anointed you, your message and your book.
Thank you for being obedient. Know that the Lord is right on time and will use this book to bring freedom to many!
I’m looking forward to reading it…and passing it on to others.
I watched your video and wanted to cry. I have lived my whole life like a “good girl” and only in the past couple years have I begun to understand what grace is really all about. I can’t wait to read your book… thank you for sharing your heart with the world.
so lovely to hear your voice…although your VOICE is “heard” loud and clear on the pages of this blog. specifically, your description of the invitation that is giving from a loving Father who IS the THE safe place is beautiful. yes, i relate to the “attempt to manufacture safe places” for myself. He is freeing me from that as i am beginning to really believe that i am His beloved. i cannot wait to “hear” more from the pages of the book and to read of others who will be set free by grace.
p.s. the book cover image could not be any more perfect.
adornedlife´s last [type] ..savor
Excellent! I don’t know what to say besides I guess I’m a good girl too and really need to hear what you’ve learned. Both my husband and I would love for me to stop living my life out of guilt…..Thanks, Emily, for being so candid…. And yes, I too think the cover is perfect.
wonderful.
beautiful.
lovely.
AWESOME job!
…and i can relate to your story….thanks for sharing
heidi @ wonder woman wannabe´s last [type] ..Wannabe Round Up-Dealing with a Picky Eater
As I watched that video, I couldn’t help but think what a beautiful person you are. You have such a beautiful heart. I am thankful for your blog, and how your words pull the strings on my heart. I am so excited about your book. I have 4 small children, and lately I have been struggling with the “perfectionist good girl” at the end of the day. I know her well.
Oh, Emily, this is lovely! I’m looking forward to September. And guess what? I’m a pastor’s wife, too.
Caroline Starr Rose´s last [type] ..Comfort Books
Thank you for being real. For getting outside your comfort zone. For inspiring and touch my heart.
Emily…I haven’t had the pleasure of hearing you speak…but your “vocal” voice is just like your “written” voice. They rhythm the pitch…you have woven that sound into your written words. That is a gift.
But…what I wanted you to know…I did not expect this…you touched me…and this pretty unemotional gal was brought to tears. I wonder if I’ve been a good girl in hiding. Hmmm.
1. Love your shirt.
2. Love your sweet voice.
3. I think I’m a good girl! [don't know why I have not realized this till now]
4. I pre-ordered!
[Note: observations not listed in order of importance!
]
Congratulations, Emily — you did beautifully.
Michelle DeRusha@Graceful´s last [type] ..Because I Could Not Pass by Beauty
Wow. I can’t wait to read this book. This is something that the Lord has been teaching for several years now. It all started when I was suddenly on complete bedrest with my first child who had just been diagnosed in utero with complex heart defects. My world changed so fast. My husband was a youth pastor, I had just graduated from Bible college myself, and my whole relationship with God to that point was so fraught with “doing and doing” instead of really knowing the God of the Bible. Instead of being able to “do” because I was on bedrest, I finally came to realize that pleasing God was through first knowing Him and all that “doing” stuff was secondary. A hard but wonderful lesson.
But yeah. I’m a good girl, like you. And a Pastor’s wife still. =)
The video is great.
I am eagerly waiting for your book. Cheers!
Emily,
I was excited about your book, but now I’m really excited!
Even though I’m far from a “good girl”. I understand and relate to some of the battles you discussed here!
Amy Sullivan´s last [type] ..Neuroendocrine Cell Hyperplasia and Haunting Words
Wonderful video. I was a bad girl. But only because I realized very young that being a good girl wasn’t going to be possible. I went to be with the same shame you did, but instead of finding Christ, I ran from him. And then one day he found me. So in the end the good girl’s and the bad girls need the very same grace.
Sally Apokedak´s last [type] ..Spring Cleaning
YES YES YES YES YES!!!!!!! and yes.
Emily´s last [type] ..in which I talk about Grace for the Good Girl
Emily,
I found your blog through my sweet friend Shannan and I’m so glad I did. I’ve been back several times now. I’m also a writer and understand the terror of talking about your project(s) openly and hitting “send.” But I’m so glad you did. I was a good girl. I am a perfectionist. I worry constantly about getting “in trouble” for making the wrong decision. (By who, I’m not quite sure.) And as transparent as I am, there is a constant need to “get it right.” To please other people. I cannot wait to read your book. I have a feeling it will speak to the core of my being.
Courtney
Courtney Walsh´s last [type] ..Enjoying the ParkSophia style
Your video felt like fresh water on my parched soul. I can’t wait to read the book. God bless you for sharing yourself and making others smile in perfect understanding.
Beautiful!
I was moved to tears.
Learning to love myself as I am, where I am, takes such courage, strength and faith.
Thank you for sharing your experience, courage, strength & faith with us.
I watched this on Facebook this morning. I thought you were brilliant and I enjoyed hearing your voice instead of just reading your voice.
I’m so looking forward to your book– I have already made a list of friends and family who will receive a copy for Christmas. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Heidi M´s last [type] ..Good Reads
Oh, it’s like you’ve been eavesdropping on my life. My husband is a counselor and usually he tries not to counsel me because, well, that doesn’t work well for marriage, but yesterday he was sitting there listening to me unload all the feelings of failure that overwhelm me despite the fact that I’m doing life “the right way” and he leaned forward with his counselor face and said, “you know shame isn’t just when people put you down too much, it’s also when they build you up and then you’re expected to be superhuman”. And I lost it. Because he’s right. And you’re right. Oh the shame of being the good girl. Thank you for being a conduit of God’s grace to us good girls.
this is just absolutely beautiful….and so full of grace……thank you for writing for the good girls……there are a lot of us out here….
Mona´s last [type] ..Some days are just like this
Love this! I’ve been following your blog for just a few months and didn’t know you were having a book published. This sounds like the perfect book for me. I’m so excited for you!! Thanks for being brave and sharing.
Laura´s last [type] ..One Thousand Gifts
Well, I’m commenter # 193, which must mean this topic will hit home with a lot of women! You know, I cried reading it.
Good job.
I cannot wait to read your book – I was so excited and touched watching your short video – cannot even imagine the book
Thanks so much for sharing.
GOOD JOB EM!!!!! : ) My husband and I recently did some video footage talking about our upcoming mission stuff and I felt SO awkward and unnatural through the whole thing, so I have a different perspective watching this than I would have a few weeks ago. You seemed totally natural and calm, not to mention that I love what you said… Love the “recovering good girl”. : ) The whole video made me smile and the picture on the cover of the book made me cry. I remember your post about the cover photo and you’re totally right. That one was IT!
Thanks for hitting publish. : ) You done good, girl!
Melissa May´s last [type] ..Pictures on the Walls
could you BE any cuter? i had tears in my eyes and i’m not a crier. you are precious.
melissa stover´s last [type] ..Do you tweet
Thank you for listening to God’s leading to write this book. I can’t wait to read it! You are describing my life when you talk of yours. Discouragement is such a tool of Satan, but it haunts me. I was asked to speak to a group of ladies on the topic of grace almost a year ago and I loved what I learned as I studied! I am excited to delve into it even more deeply as I read your book.
And by the way, you came across beautifully calm and grace-full in the video. The message was so clear – I wept as you spoke.
Yeah, Emily! It sounds like a great read. Thanks for being brave and not hiding under the table!
Carol H.´s last [type] ..A Family Dinner “Game”
Thrilled beyond words to see this…
Imperfect´s last [type] ..The Unexpected
I saw the post on your sister’s blog, read the title, preordered it then watched your video. It clearly spoke to me. I’ve been on quite a journey this last year. After trying over and over again to post about it, I finally after watching your video was able to write about it even if it is only part of it. Its a start so thank you for being a vessel God is using.
peacefulness in my heart. thank you! xo
[I just left this note on your sister's blog and will share it with you as well!]
How timely that I should run across your site and the plug for your sister’s book. I don’t label myself a “recovering good girl” but rather a “recovering perfectionist” (which may very well be the same thing). It’s amazing how we beat ourselves up b/c we don’t have it just right.
Our pastor gave a sermon this past Sunday about Mary pouring the perfume on Christ’s feet while Martha was busy away in the kitchen missing out on the moment with Jesus. I am a Martha desperately wishing to be more like Mary — to enjoy my Savior in the moment and not be so worried and consumed w/ all the little things that really mean nothing in the end.
Thank you for sharing!
Wow, great clip! You are very well spoken and inviting!
Amanda asweetliferocks´s last [type] ..Living FullyRight Now
Emily, great clip. Thank you for sharing a part of your story. can’t wait to read your book!!
Pattyann´s last [type] ..The Difference One Day Can Make
you are beautiful, emily! and just the tiny glimpse you shared about the book was enough to make me want to click over to pre order… just as soon as i ask my hubby for the credit card in the morning.
your story is so REAL~ and reminds me of something i heard someone say years ago… ” a message prepared in the mind only reaches the mind.. but a message prepared in the heart, reaches hearts.” i think your message is going to do just that.
glad you hit publish & shared this w/ us. it’s been neat how open you’ve been about this journey – and now it’s like hundreds of us women are crowding into the delivery room, anxiously awaiting the arrival of this precious birth.
blessings~
grace.to.be´s last [type] ..Thursday- March 03- 2011
I am mesmerized by you! Can’t wait till the book comes out!!!!
Zhanna´s last [type] ..Inspirational Picasso
Tears … how did you know me?!! From one ‘good girl’ to another – many blessings as you expose the truth about grace – that no amount of striving could ever gain us any more approval than we already have with our Father.
You did a wonderful job! You come across beautifully. Thanks fro taking a risk for our King. This is only the beginning. Be bold. No holding back. We both know our God is going to show up as you continue to step out for Him.
Su@The Intentional Home´s last [type] ..My Walgreens Shop
You are such a wonderful reminder to me that our (good girl’s) struggles are often just as great as ohters who seem to need God more. Often I feel unworthy of even sharing my fears and disappointments becuase there is such sadness and hurt in other peoples’ worlds. God is using you in wonderful ways! God Bless.
You’ve brought tears to my eyes. I can’t wait to read your book. You were so precious in this video. I am not sure that is the right word, but it is the one that keeps coming to mind.
These same feelings came crashing down into my realization once I had kids… I would do something/say something that I felt was not “right” and I would be so afraid I had ruined that moment or memory for my children. I would try to go to sleep at night but instead would just cry. It is UNBELIEVABLE what changes once you give the grace to yourself that you have been freely giving to everyone else.
Blessings,
Becky
Just pre-ordered my book! I’m so excited to read it! I’m a young newlywed married to a med student, who has definitely been struggling with the exact words you said in your video. I work at a University in the marketing department not really doing anything significant with my life. I’m not saving lives, discovering the cure for cancer, etc. Sometimes I feel like I’m wasting my life, not really living it to its fullest and not being enough. I’ve lived my life in a way that I thought was how “I should live my life according to God’s word” aka “perfectly.” But now married and seeing people my age accomplish so much, I wish I would have taken more risks and made more mistakes. I can’t wait to read your book and find some peace and become a recovering good girl
Much love and blessings,
Julie
Emily,
I came across your blog just this morning, and was so touched by the into to your book. I already have it in my cart at Amazon.
Thank you for sharing your story with the world. I have no doubt that, like me, other “good girls” will be blessed.
With much joy,
Jamie:)
So fun to see you “in person” and hear the voice tha sounds just like it does in your writing. You’ve done such a nice job of being authentic in your writing– your voice is easily heard thru this computer screen, even without the video
Can’t wait for the book- your interview made me cry. Can’t wait to read it.
Chelsea´s last [type] ..You Can Bet
A breath of fresh air – truly.
Theresa´s last [type] ..WFW – Do not worry
justin (husband) comes home yesterday and says “i saw emily’s video post through melissa’s linkedin page today, have you seen it?” me (after i chuckle and clarify how he followed those links around), “not yet, i didn’t open my reader today”. he says “i mean, could she write a book more about you?” i laugh and tell him that it was already in my 2011 ‘books to read’ list, marked for the september debut. just wanted to let you know that i’m really looking forward to it.
God speaks through you, friend…
thank you, for stepping out, and writing this… for setting captives free.
xo
emily wierenga´s last [type] ..imperfect prose on thursdays- the boys with clown noses
Amen!
Mrs.B´s last [type] ..Springtime
Emily, saw the video on your sister’s blog. Found out about both blogs i think through Proverbs 31 Ministries. What a totally honest awesome book it sounds like you have written. It was truly one of those times when I felt like “wow…someone thinks, feels, like I do”…. That is a good feeling. Can’t wait to read your book. Ordered today from Amazon.
Donna in georgia
God bless you and your family……
Just to be freed from perfection…oh yes. I’m so glad you made this video. I had no idea Grace for the Good girl would be for me. Thank You so very much Emily. Still unwrapping my every day and giving thanks. Here’s one more reason for more thanks-giving.
Jeri´s last [type] ..Body Healing- Spirit Alive!
Placed my order. I’m so excited for this book.
Jeri´s last [type] ..Body Healing- Spirit Alive!
What a wonderful trailer!!!! I am so proud of you.
Blessings,
Sandy
Sandy Cooper´s last [type] ..God Speaks Today Turns Three!
Oh…WOW Emily. I just watched the video…some big tears in my eyes!
Mrs.B´s last [type] ..Springtime
great video! makes me wish the book was coming out sooner.
Emily! I watched this video…and then I watched it again. I just love you! I remember back at She Speaks when we talked about how exciting it would be when you wrote a book and that we know you! God has given you such a sweet spirit and this video just displayed that and your authenticity so well! I can’t wait to get your book!! I love you, friend!
One other thing, every Thursday – well most every Thursday I do something called “Everyone has a story” on my blog. I would love if you would write part of yours… Really whatever topic you wanted. My purpose is helping us all to see past the surface and to realize that we all have a story and God calls us to live our story to the fullest. I would add your video to that post as well. I would be happy to repost a blog you already have written too. BUT, if this just feels overwhelming, no pressure at all. Seriously. On the other hand, if something comes to mind, I would love to have you share. Let me know will you?
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Ok..so I’m a little late watching this, but after seeing your video….I TOTALLY want to read your book…..and be your best friend. Is that weird?? I’m so not a stalker, or freak….but you are a kindred spirit.
A friend gave me the link to your blog today, so this is my first visit. Your video sounds like the story of my life… That unspeakable sense of shame over never being good enough, having such a difficult time accepting grace. Thank you for writing about this! Can’t wait for your book and the chance to check out more of your blog posts.
Reagan
I’ve added this to my Barnes & Noble Wish List! Hope to see a Nook version available closer to the release date. Looking forward to reading it!
Sincerely, Jenni´s last [type] ..31 Days- Day 7
Ummm. LOVE! That’s all I have to say about that.
Lara´s last [type] ..comparing my to-do list with His
I loved your video. I loved your story. I’m confident I’m going to love your book. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. Perhaps you’ve inspired me.
EMILY! I am SOOOO happy right now! Just seeing this promo, and I am just so happy.
XOXO
Katherine
girl~ had to tell you i came back to grab this link to share w/ a friend who just said to me, “i’ve always been the “good” girl!” and my heart went, “Ack! have I got a book for you!”
and me too. 
grace.to.be´s last [type] ..Friday- March 18- 2011
huh. and wow again. i always thought i was the only one that felt this way. i swear, i’m just a cryin’ my way right thru your blog! can’t wait until september!
amy´s last [type] ..coveting this
Oh my. This really touched me. You just hit on something that I didn’t even know was there. Not only did I not know it was there, you put it into words perfectly. I have been a “good girl” all my life and have gotten to the point where I almost feel guilty about it. I feel guilt about EVERYTHING. Just this Friday I felt guilty that I was unable to make it to my daughters’ egg hunt at school because I was working. In the mean time, I felt guilty that my cat was stuck up in the top of a 50-60 foot tree for at least 48 hours and I couldn’t take care of that issue either. I felt guilty that I was in a meeting at work and I was in a mentoring role for someone who was struggling. Guilt. Guilt. Guilt. Someone told me I needed to let it all go and I said I didn’t know how. I need your book.
~Crystal (Not to mention, Grace is something I can’t begin to wrap my brain around)….
When I watched your video explaining your book I HAD to pre-order it. I’m so excited to read it and know many other women who will be too. Thanks!
Can’t wait for your book to come out! I really enjoyed your blogging for Compassion. =)
Emily…I have heard great things about this book! I hope to read it myself, and I was wondering…would it be suitable for a mature young teen? She is almost 13 and a good girl. Thoughts?
Thanks, in advance!