things to chat about (and a giveaway)

My soul has been busy taking some deep breaths after writing for 31 days (anyone with me?) It’s been a nice week for that. Here are some links and a few giveaways for your weekend…

Plan Your Peaceful Christmas @ Simple Mom – Because even though I know it isn’t even Thanksgiving yet, I try to do what Simple Mom says because, you know, she’s smart and awesome. And simple. She offers great things to think about as the holidays approach.

The Official Relevant 11 Linky @ The Relevant Conference – Spent 5 days last week in snowy Pennsylvania. If you’ve wondered what happens at a blog conference, here is a list of posts from the attendees. What a sweet and encouraging time that was.

A Writer’s Number One Enemy @ Jody Hedlund – One of my favorite places to go when I need some encouragement or motivation in my writing.

Her First Giveaway Ever! @ Uplifting Words - Still don’t have a copy of Grace for the Good Girl? Enter here to win one! It’s Stefanie’s first giveaway ever. Show the love.

I’ve been receiving lots of email from women who have read my book. Beautiful women. Brave women. And some questioning women. I would love to answer some of these questions and so on Monday I’ll be asking you if you have any. Then on Tuesday, we’ll walk through some of the answers. Or, perhaps, we’ll just struggle through the questions together.

One last thing – I’ve been staring at my bookshelf this week and noticed so many beautiful books sitting there and decided it is time to pass some of them on. I’m giving away three books by one of my favorite authors, Mary DeMuth. But you can’t win them here. If you visit the Chatting at the Sky Facebook page and click ‘like’, you can enter to win all 3 books in the Defiance Texas Trilogy. I’ll announce the winner Saturday, November 5 there on Facebook.
May your weekend be filled with color and grace, and may you know deep down into your bones how dearly you are loved.

winners announced!

The comments on yesterday’s post were so beautiful and inspiring to me. I’m learning one of my favorite questions to ask writers is the question we asked yesterday. Your answers were perfection. But back to business. The 10 winners of Mary Demuth’s 11 Secrets of Getting Published are:

Anna K.
Kim VB
Katie
Genie blazi
Hannah
La Donna
Beth (A Mom’s Life)
Charlotte
carissa
Vicki

Congrats! I will be notifying all of you via email on how to claim your prize. In other news, we’re gearing up around here for 31 days! Tomorrow is the big day and I hope you’ll be back for 31 days to Change the World. It will be epic. Ish.

The 11 Secrets of Getting Published

When I saw congrats and squee!s for Melanie at The Big Mama Blog burning up twitter yesterday, I scrambled to find out her news. After refreshing her crashed blog 47 times, I finally read that she recently signed a contract to write a book for Tyndale! And I quietly rejoiced with her in my heart because I know her journey was not quick and easy. I know the fear and the responsibility that come out of the shadows as soon as you sign your name on the line above the word author. I know the unexpected panic that seems to accompany a book contract, the kind you are completely unprepared for, tempting you to want to do anything but write that book.

Might I tread lightly into uncomfortable waters for a moment? Am I wrong to say that sometimes when a blogger announces they have an agent and are writing a book for a publisher and everything, am I wrong to say that sometimes it can bring a heavy cloud of discouragement? Because even though everyone knows that one person’s success doesn’t decrease anyone else’s chances, sometimes it feels that way.

And so we sit in a corner of scarcity, fearing our ideas will never be read, heard, seen, or appreciated. Three years ago when I was busy working on a book proposal, I was sure any real person in publishing would laugh at my ideas all the way back to their big city book office. Sometimes it was difficult to hear the success stories because I worried there were secrets I didn’t know. I worried my ideas were ridiculous, my writing was mediocre, and my desire to write would always only be a desire. Nothing more.

If publishing is something you are serious about, if writing has always been your thing, please don’t allow discouragement to derail you in your journey towards publication. Might I offer you some encouragement today in the form of words from a friend and writing mentor?

Mary DeMuth has written a fabulous 300 page book called The 11 Secrets of Getting Published. And she should know. She wrote in obscurity for ten years with no book and no recognition. Now, she’s the author of 12 books and counting. This girl knows some secrets. One of the things I love about Mary is that she is relatable, touch-able, personable and honest. (Okay that’s four things). She is a successful author who has translated her work into tips and keys for the rest of us. And then she put them all in an ebook for us to refer to as much as we want. There are no secrets with her.

11 people who need The 11 Secrets of Getting Published:

  • a man or woman who wants to learn more about publishing or writing in general
  • anyone who wants to clean up their writing, hone their skills, and better learn the craft
  • anyone who needs encouragement on her journey towards publication
  • a writer who wants to write a book proposal and wants someone to tell them what to do
  • an author who is published and wants advice on marketing, career, and purpose
  • a fearful writer who worries about both failure and success
  • a non-fiction writer who wants tips and perspective
  • a fiction writer who needs direction and motivation
  • a writer who wants to learn more about the difference between self-publishing and traditional publishing
  • a blogger who is curious about publishing and what it might mean
  • anyone who has always wanted a writing mentor
Mary holds nothing back. She shares her own fears and frustrations on her journey and is a wise and encouraging voice for the rest of us. Not only does she share lots of practical advice on the craft of writing, she also uses stories and behind-the-scenes snapshots to remind us of the work it took for the success stories to become successful.

“Did you know that George Clooney appeared in The Golden Girls’ episode, “To Catch a Neighbor” in 1987? He was one of the two police officers who stayed in the women’s home as protection. And now what’s he up to? Anything he wants. But George had to work. He had to pretend he was a young police man on The Golden Girls. He paid his dues.”

Mary DeMuth, 11 Secrets

The 11 Secrets of Getting Published is only $4.99. For the cost of a venti frappuccino you can have Mary’s hard earned wisdom and advice at your fingertips. And it won’t give you a stomachache or cellulite. You can have it delivered to your Kindle, Nook, or email as a simple PDF. Today, Mary is giving away 10 copies to 10 commenters on this post! Simply leave your answer to this question to enter:

If you could write about anything in the whole wide world, what would it be? Magical fiction? A blog about cooking? A rich and full memoir? Short stories? A book about the love of God? A column in a magazine? Pay no attention to that voice of reason. Just answer honestly in the comments. Ten winners will be notified Friday September 29. Go.

to feed your soul

I really love Lisa Leonard. She is genuine, talented, and beautiful. She and I sat on the edge of the world a few weeks ago. Surrounded by friends, we talked about life and family and risk. We sat there in the cool sand, the southern September breeze carrying sweet conversation and the occasional laugh and holler from the girls behind us. And as we sat, my soul breathed in deep and wide. I felt the necklace around my neck, the one that says feed your soul, and I realized this is what it meant.

Lisa gave each one of us one of her tiny works of art, and now she wants to give one to you. Enter to win a feed your soul necklace in the comments below by answering the question: What is it that feeds your soul? Comments are open until 11 pm EST Sunday September 25. Winner will be contacted by email on Monday.

Lisa and her husband have two boys and live in California. You can browse Lisa Leonard Designs on her website or visit her beautiful blog. You can also use the code chattingatthesky to receive %15 off your purchase.

winners announced!

The winners of a signed copy of Grace for the Good Girl are: Just B @ Love Where You LiveRaeAmandaKelli , and Jennifer D. Please email me at emily(at)chattingatthesky(dot)com and put “book winner” in the subject line. Please include your mailing address  in the email. I hope you enjoy the book!

 

 

The winners of a copy of Shaun Groves’ Third World Symphony are: BrookeShannon@Chickens in My Kitchen, Becky J., Krissa, and Diane Bailey. Please email me at emily(at)chattingatthesky(dot)com and put “CD winner” in the subject line. Please include your mailing address in the email. I hope you enjoy the CD!

Grace for the Good Girl :: released.

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Grace for the Good Girl is now officially available wherever books are sold. You can also grab your copy at your favorite online retailer: Barnes and NobleAmazon, LifeWay, Family Christian Stores, DaySpring. Today is the first day it’s available for download on your Nook or Kindle.

Read the first chapter of Grace for the Good Girl

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Enter to win one of five copies of Grace for the Good Girl by leaving a comment below. Winners announced Tuesday September 6.

Third World Symphony with Shaun Groves

Updated :: Giveaway winners will be announced Tuesday September 6. Still time to enter!

Shaun and I followed Kat up the ladder into the dark, one-room house made of cardboard and tin. Shaun was our team leader and he walked these streets and climbed these ladders in India and Guatemala and Kenya. But Manila was my first undoing and the grief came tsunami heavy. We crowded together in that small space, and the first thing I saw when we got there was toddler AJ asleep on the floor. He was so small and so like my son. I tried to hide my face behind the door, behind my camera, beneath my hand. Kat slipped me a tissue and I willed my body to stop shaking.

We stood silent as the Compassion volunteer sat with AJ’s mama and read from the Bible in Tagalog. I tried to distract myself by looking around the little room. That’s when I saw the matchbox car. My son has the same one. But this one here in the Philippines had no wheels. Grief.

Two days later we spent the day with four of the most vibrant, beautiful, confident young women I’ve yet to meet. They lived in poverty but were wealthy with love, grace, and compassion. They reminded me of girls in our youth group in North Carolina. They were lovely. Hope.

We flew home to the other side of the world. I quickly remembered how to walk in my own shoes again though I was sure they wouldn’t fit. I came home to a full freezer. An anxious seven year old. A basket full of matchbox cars. Cancer.

We had a birthday party and two weeks later, a funeral. Hope and then grief. And in the midst of all the brokenness and joy and living, I now stand torn between their world and mine.

It’s all pain, isn’t it? And the pain brought a tightening in my soul this summer, a folding in on myself in protection and a bit of fear. I wasn’t sure how to continue to process this world with that world and all that’s in between us. Then I started listening to Shaun’s new album. These words, they have brought a loosening within me. This music helps me see. This Third World Symphony brings these two worlds together like the wheel-less car on AJ’s table and those in my son’s basket; like the poverty on the streets of Manila and the death in my own family; like the hope of a bright future for young Filipino girls and also the ones in my small group. Shaun has seen things, and so has his music.

The words on this album remind me that Jesus is present when people are broken. And that it isn’t only all pain. It’s all grace. I wrote a book about grace, but still I forget. Have you watched this video of Shaun and Ann talking about his song, All is Grace? These two don’t just say truth, they believe it.

This album is an extension of that belief. And belief is what we are so desperate for, isn’t it? I don’t often recommend things, but might I recommend this? Shaun has found a way to sing theology. Deep truth. Gospel heart. If you want gentle direction on how to reconcile the third world way over there with our first world right here, begin with this. Come see. Want to hear a sample? Listen as Shaun sings the words on these pictures, the lyrics to Come By Here … (there is a video below – if you’re reading elsewhere you may need to click over)

So thankful to Shaun for staying up way too late and singing for us today. What a gift. Come By Here is track 2 on the album and I have it on repeat. And repeat.

Shaun Groves is a singer/songwriter, an artist, father, husband. He is also a friend. He advocates for children living in poverty around the world by traveling with Compassion International. His is a voice reminding all believers to remember that we weren’t just saved from something, but saved for something. His newest album, Third World Symphony, officially released yesterday. This is the second stop on the tour.

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Want to win a copy for yourself? (You do. Trust me.) Leave a comment below and we’ll choose five winners to be announced Tuesday September 6.

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